Friday, September 14, 2012

Wednesday, July 18, 2012

Doll in Islam


Once upon a time when Rasulullah sallahu alaihi wassalam came from tabuk/khaibar war. Then He found Amirul mukminin, Aisyah r.a was hiding something behind curtains, later then wind was come and showed the thing which was hidden by Aisyah r.a. Aisyah r.a and her friends were so affraid, and some of them was hide from rasulullah coz maybe they thought prophet would be angried.
But really the precious person ever lived in this world so friendly. He came to Aisyah r.a and swabed her hair. Aisyah r.a was really excited to play doll with her friends. then with softly voice Rasulullah began to ask his wife.
"what are they ?" with smiley face Rasulullah Asked
"Thats mychildren" Aisyah answered quickly.
"and what is in the middle?" still with lovely voice.
"that is horse." Amirul mukminin replied.
"and what is on it?" Rasulullah curious.
"thats called wings of horse" Aisyah answered confidently
"does horse have wings?" Rasulullah asked again.
then with genius amirul mukminin said,
" dont you know my prophet, Sulaiman a.s the son of Daud a.s has this animal, horse with wings". Rasulullah was smiling till showed his molars when Aisyah replied.
So Rasulullah left aisyah and her friends played.
This story based on hadist narated by
  • Abu Daud, no. 4932 ( this hadist was revealed shahih by Al Abany in Abu Daud hadist )
  • Bukhari no. 5779 and Muslim no. 2440 
Next check out in "Ahkam At-Tashwir fil Fiqhil Islamy" pages 241-26 for related hadist.
This is for only children, coz they alwys be happy with doll. It also will educate her to be greatest mom in future.
Based on opinion of Asy-Syaikh Muhammad bin Shalih Al-’Utsaimin said The doll was used by aisyah, has characteristic such as doll must not describe details of human being, cant walk, cant cry, cant laugh. There are many many opinion about this topic, but as Rasulullah said


“Innamal a’malu bin niyat...


Wallahualam bishawab.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

TransGender

Ibnu ‘Abbas radhiallahu ‘anhuma said : "Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam cursed men who is resembling a women and women who is resembling a men" (HR. Al-Bukhari no. 5885, 6834). This hadist is really happening in the whole world now, maybe since a couple years. I was going to market with some moms when we met a boy brought a handy bag with so elegant. I just can smile without his knowing. May Qiyamah will be happened soon?. I took deeply breath .. Sigh. Oh Allah why a lot of people follow their wishing only. I guarantee that they also read Alquran and Hadist. I also ever read some hadist about this kind of men whom born with soft voice, this is not a matter but the problem is when they do out of limitation such as using women clothes, walking as women style, then the horrible thing that they did , "plastic surgeon" to change what Allah has given to them, they dont know what the best features for them . Only Allah knows that coz He is the only one who fully understands about His creation. Then Allah allows some of them crazy about changes. They enlived a beauty contest, proud to be the most beautiful transgender in this world. 
And the thing that we need to be awared is their character also became changed. They take chance with the real women to love and to marry with men. As the world population known, according to the CIA world factbook 2009 there are 1.1 that means 50% males and 50% females of world population which about total 6,790,062,216 people. So if some of them become women also interested with men then how about the real women where she will keep her love . 
In this case I just describe this matter in Islam view as my religion. But for logic give a time to read your holy book, googling about doing sex with same gender, is it safety or not ?. Dont follow your emotion and satisfaction without using deeply mind and heart. There has alot of proves whose follow their heart they will be success in this changing world. 
Wallahualam bishawab... Allah knows more than us. 
May Allah bless us .

 

Friday, July 6, 2012

Morning Sickness

This is not about pregnant syndrome, Its just about my heart problem. I always try to be good as soon as our dream, but sometimes devils come and break all my fortress. Hmmm I should to be minded of Fatimah Azzahra when She tried to get a housekeeper for her home, She went to Rasulullah (pbuh), and said about how hard her life was. But Rasulullah (pbuh ) with wisely said, "You know, I will tell you something better than you want , before you come to your bed please praise to Allah with kalimah Allahu Akbar 33 times, then tasbih Subhanallah 33 times, then tahmid Alhamdulillah 33 times, Its better for you than a maid". (Hadits Shahih, ditakhrij Al-Bukhari 4/102, Muslim 17/45, Abu Dawud hadits nomor 5062, At-Tirmidzi hadits nomor 3469, Ahmad 1/96, Al-Baihaqy 7/293). So from now we should think that Rasulullah also thought us and gave us medicine for our morality. This is the best medicine for wife when we think that everything is hard to do, tired, life goes to bored, we have to realize that something we missed to do, that was praise to Allah. Doing home-work is women's nature, so the consequence of doing home work is tired, then our Rasulullah has taught us the painkiller of our heart diseases. Praise to Allah is the best medicine for every human diseases. so guys out there, always remebering Allah wherever you are and whatever you do. May Allah bless us ... Aamiin

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